Saturday, 15 September 2012

Luck in being unlucky.



Since I am somehow an inch-close to actually joining the likes of proud ,polished, employed men and women who celebrate every 15th and 30th of the month, I figured that it is only proper to give back some of the kind blessings and overwhelming generosity I've been receiving lately by blogging about it. I know I'm no Mother Theresa and maybe what I'm doing will hardly deliver any impact to the lives of all those who have helped me but, what the heck, some recognition is what anybody would want these days...

P.S If it's any consolation, when I get rich- exaggeratedly rich, I vow to give those people a car or something. hehe

And so the story: I think I've mentioned in my previous posts that I am not studying as of the moment. Hence, the need for me to make myself useful and not be a burden to my parents whom I think are more depressed than I am that I stopped. I seriously feel guilty most of the time for not being smart I guess. If only I could have gotten in that prestigious state university of the country then maybe we won't be this much helpless. If only I could have done better in this certain network marketing job I used to do then maybe we're not worrying about tuition for my younger siblings right now. If only I was talented enough or pretty enough to be on TV then maybe we'd have the money to buy our own house. So many over-the-top, drama-queen “if's” but I hope you get the point anyway. And while my supposed to-be classmates are busy learning about the basics of news writing, I am busy hating myself for being worthless.

But then, there are such things as miracles. And you don't just let things like those pass. You freakin' chase after them if you have to. A relative of ours came to the rescue. She was so nice even if we just met for the first time- second actually but I was really young then and all I could remember was that I was too shy to say hi eye to eye and thus no image of her was saved in my brain. Anyway, I was offered a job tutoring online. I was ecstatic! Finally I could help with the bills and stuff. I could save money again because there is money to be saved again to start with. And most importantly, I could look forward to going back to school much more now that I have the means to actually fulfill doing so. Ate Celyn, as I call her, has been very gracious and patient the whole time she was teaching me the ropes of teaching online. I would always have this fear that she would get mad and quit helping me whenever I text her questions about this and that, but she would just reply with everything answered and with that timeless smiley. I will forever be grateful to her.

As I expected the whole procedure of being hired has been a whirlwind. For the most part, I always see myself blowing the chance off. I guess not being in school while all the others your age are, takes its toll by munching on your self-esteem. To top my confidence-deficiency off, the internet connection in every house I go to seems to be hating me. My interview for the job, my first one in fact, was anything a thriller/comedy movie could be- if ever something like that does exist. Skype kept messing around, my headphones and mic were grounded, internet in that house of our neighbor was impossible and I was extremely nervous. First part was a grammar test, second was essay, and I was stressing my way the entire time. I don't know if it was the internet connection or just Skype but things were really lagged the whole time and I kept picturing myself failing the dang interview. The interview part was worse, I guess. I was stuttering from the nervousness, but quite frankly from being unsure of what I'm saying exactly. But for some weird luck, the interviewer announced that I passed the interview. I was completely dumbfounded when I heard it that I asked him once more if what I heard was right. I was prepared to yell out the excitement but then stopped halfway and apologized because I knew he had heard me somehow. It was very unprofessional but thank god he didn't take back me passing the interview. I knew I screwed up big time but like Ate Celyn, I think Mr. Interviewer somehow sensed I needed this. I needed the job. But I needed to prove myself more.

My next two angels were girls. They had the most beautiful voices I have ever heard, no joke. Because everything is done online like the job itself, I had to pray really hard that the internet be cooperative or else it could be the end for me. No job. No help to the family. No worth. But like my previous unfortunate encounter, I always get disconnected and stuff. I said to myself that it wasn't going to be like the interview. I will prepare hardcore for this. But then the universe so merrily conspired for me to have another replay of that tragic moment. My demo class wasn't perfect. The curse followed me to Ate Celyn's house. It's a good thing that the demo student didn't get mad and ditched me. I was very thankful for her that I passed. I knew I did sort of well there, I worked hard for that day. And Ate Celyn coached me a little. The next stop was the orientation. It's like everything was being set up perfectly for me and I just didn't knew it. Because before passing this stage, I was again having connection troubles and blubbering cases. I was surprised to find out that some of the questions were not in the reading materials the company sent me. I kept saying goodbye to me having work the entire time. But then, like a fairytale movie, it always has this happy ending. The trainer announced I passed but reminded me to review and go over the readings so as to not fail in the OJT.

So I'm almost at the last stop. I cannot screw this at any cost because there will be no one to save me now. I really hope we'll have our own connection anytime soon. But in the meantime, I'm still trying to get over all the luckily unlucky events that have happened, trying to think of ways to get back at those people who went and gave me a shot and trying to push myself to be better.














* Sorry for the inconvenience this boring, poorly written post has brought you...



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